Give your best give

Many at times people think that being there for the people you love is signing a cheque and sending loads and loads of groceries and passing a message saying I miss you guys now and again will make them know that you care.

They appreciate the goodies and they really feel loved and cared for but you are depriving them of one gift that they will always cherish all their life. With the technology so advanced most of us think sending a BBM or Whatsapp checking on them and chatting for considerable amount of time will make up for the time you don’t see that person but we are wrong. We can’t share that laughter and enjoy it on bbm or whatsapp.

Every one is so busy and the pace is so fast that people don’t even have time to spend with the ones that they care for. We think as long as you know that they are ok then there is no reason to go and see them little do we know that we are depriving our relatives, friends, loved ones the best  gift that we can ever give them.

A lot of people might say the best gift to give is expensive stuff that you know that particular person has been dying for. But wait a minute, do you know that the best give that you can ever give to someone is your time, that can’t be bought anywhere.

Hectic as it might be take time to visit that special person, that friend you always check on once in a while on bbm or that person you are always texting. Just set time aside and be with them. That is the best gift that you can ever give them because your presence or your time well spent with them can’t be bought with any amount of money.

Take time to visit friends, do all the crazy things and enjoy the time you spend together in each others company. Do you know the reason why it’s so painful when a loved one passes away? Often at times we think a lot of the things we should have done with that person. You beat yourself for not going to the movies, going shopping, or just sitting there talking all through. You wish if only you had done that. But you let unimportant staff take your time away, time which was meant to be spent with a friend.

No amount of money can buy time back and no expensive gifts can make up for the time not spent with the ones you care for. Take time to give someone your best give. Brighten someone’s face by visiting them and spending quality time with them. Give them your undivided attention, show you want to be there and they mean a lot to you that’s why you took time off your busy schedule just to be with them.

Give the best give so that one day when that person is gone you will know that whilst they were around you took time to do the things that you’ve always wanted to do with them. It will be easy for you to heal as well because you know that where ever they are you spent time with them and you enjoyed it.

Just think of the last time you visited that special someone in you life imagine when last you visited that one friend. You might not do anything special together but that time spent together is time well spent and they will forever cherish that.

Take time and give someone the best gift that no one can buy. Give that special someone your Time.